cat · 12 min
Pillargive them a room. don't pick them up. don't have people over. the rest follows.
Cats are not silent dogs. They have different needs, different fears, and a different timeline for trusting a new home. The first month is mostly about giving them space and resisting the urge to make a big deal of them.
Set up one small low-traffic room (a bathroom or guest room) with food, water, litter, a bed, and a hiding spot. Close the door. Sit in there reading for an hour at a time. Don't lift the cat. Don't carry the cat. Let them come over when they're ready. Then leave the door open and let them expand the territory on their own clock.
Wet food is the closest match to what cats are evolutionarily set up to digest. Dry is fine in moderation. Free-feeding works for some cats and creates weight problems in others — portion if your cat is the second kind. Litter box rule: one box per cat, plus one extra. Unscented clumping litter is the safe default.
Indoor cats need annual exams and rabies + FVRCP core vaccines. Outdoor cats add FeLV. Carriers help — get the cat used to it open in the living room for two weeks before the first vet visit. Annual cost: $300-700 for a healthy adult cat.
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